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What is at the Root of Obsessive/Compulsive Thinking?

By Phyllis Tarbox

root obsessive compulsive thinking

“I am sick, and I will never get better. My life has no hope.”
“What if I die young and never get to see my children grow up?”
“I made a mistake, so now I am condemned to the consequences.”

The lie at the root of your fear is now an idol driving obsessive/compulsive thinking.

There is a lot to that statement, so let’s break it down.

At the root of obsessive/compulsive thinking is a lie.  Something you have agreed to that does not line up with the truth of God’s word.  The facts of your current circumstance are not the defining truth for your future. Demons use facts to magnify an anthill until it looks like a mountain.  It is the nature of these devils to lie.  Anything you let consume your thoughts obsessively is an idol keeping you from God.  Let me give you an example

A Client Story

A client told me she had to go back to the doctor due to something seen on her mammogram.  Her mother died of breast cancer.  That reality was all the enemy needed to convince her she was under a generational curse, and she was dying.  Thoughts of death swirled in her head daily until she came to my office saying, “It’s time for me to die.  My life is over.”

That may seem like an extreme conclusion, but the “what if” worrier runs way ahead of God.  Worry takes you out from your umbrella of grace given for today. Instead, it clobbers you with scary scenarios of your future. Grace is like manna; you only get enough for today.

Let’s go back to my original statement: the lie at the root of your fear is now an idol driving obsessive/compulsive thinking.  People don’t think of infirmity as an idol, but it has a loud voice.  Pain screams over the truth of your healing.  Dread that accompanies sickness brings hopelessness and wants you to fall into apathy, so you give up like my client. Demons network to kill, steal and destroy.

A spirit of legalism is the golden child demons use to bring in self condemnation.  They remind you this problem began with a mistake you made.  They convince you it’s all your fault, and now you are condemned with no way out, but God is a deliverer.  He never abandons his children.  He knows the plans he has for you, and there is hope for your future. (Jer. 29:11)

Idols cause you to rehearse the lies until they become your truth.  It is a process of deception that demons employ to get you to disagree with God’s word.

You can’t drink from the cup of the Lord and the cup of demons. You can’t feast at the table of the Lord and feast at the table of demons. (1 Cor. 10:21 TPT)

The word “feast” in this passage also means to participate, which is the Greek word metaecho, or to “echo with.”  In other words, you can’t feast at the table of the Lord in Psalm 23 with your head anointed with oil and your cup of joy running over if you repeat the lies of the enemy.

That kind of repetition makes you the feast of demons who use sharp steak knives of anxiety, dread, and self-condemnation to chew on you.

Filed Under: Christian Counseling, Featured Post Slider Tagged With: fear, mind battles, religious

Dread: The Spirit Behind Fear of the Future

By Phyllis Tarbox

“What if our economy crashes?

“What if I lose my job?”

“What if we lose our freedom?”

Welcome to fear of the future that creeps in with the dreadful words “What if?”.

“What if’s” are meant to take you out of God’s timing. They run you out from under his umbrella of grace with foreboding spirits of dread. They cause you to fear tomorrow, next week, or years from now.

Grace, like Manna, was only given for a day. When you run ahead with spirits of fear, you come out from under God’s protective grace, and your manna supply rots.

It is time to stop! Turn off the sound of conflict and focus on the word of God.

God is still in control, the ruling spirit is still the Holy Spirit, and God’s promises are for today! Focus your attention on the truth of God and not the lies of the enemy.

We struggle with disappointment because we lean on our own understanding. Do you remember the two believers traveling on the road to Emmaus in Luke 24:13? They were heading away from Jerusalem while consumed by the disappointment of Jesus’ death. They failed to realize Jesus was walking right beside them with the roadmap. As believers, we walk from a place of victory at the cross to success in our future. Don’t let the “what if’s” steal your peace.

The word Shalom means the absence of chaos. You may find yourself in a hurricane of thoughts and emotions, but it is time to center yourself in the eye of the storm and rest in the Shalom presence of God.

Abraham Expected the Promise

I love how The Passion Translation paints the picture of Abrahams faith in God’s promises:

Against all odds, when it looked hopeless, Abraham believed the promise and expected God to fulfill it. Romans 4:18

Abraham believed because he did not rely on the facts.

In spite of being nearly one hundred years old when the promise of having a son was made, his faith was so strong that it could not be undermined by the fact that he and Sarah were incapable of conceiving a child. Romans 4:19

5 Keys to Remove the Dreadful “What if’s?”

  1. Bind spirits of dread with the blood of Jesus from invading your thoughts for the next 30 days. When you hear the words “What if,” declare: I bind every spirit of dread and fear of the future that is tormenting my mind right now with the blood of Jesus Christ. I loose the shalom peace of God over my mind, and I choose to rest in peace in Jesus’ name.
  2. Think about what you are thinking about and ask God to show you what lies at the root of fear. When the world’s noise gets too loud, look up and know that all of heaven is rejoicing because it is getting closer and closer to victory.
  3. Ask God to show you his perspective and trust God. He will use what is meant for evil for your good.
  4. Focus your thoughts on five things you can be grateful for in your life today.
  5. Seek deliverance and counseling if you need help removing dread routed in fear of the future.

Some battles require pastoral counseling assistance. If you can’t do it alone, get help to win the battle!

Filed Under: Christian Counseling, Featured Post Slider Tagged With: fear

Internet Client Testimonial: Help With Fear, Anxiety and Insecurity

By Don Ibbitson

See other “Success Stories“


 

Why did you seek help?
I have had the opportunity to work with Jan McKee in a therapeutic capacity for the last several months. In my desire for personal growth and breakthrough, I have received counseling and deliverance during sessions with Jan.

What was your experience like?
My experience with Jan has been very positive. In my experience, Jan has been passionate about her role in helping me and I have deeply valued her kindness, nonjudgmental approach, and collaboration in seeking out further levels of freedom for myself. Jan has been invested; I can describe it best as her having the client’s best interest at heart, which is comforting and refreshing to say the least.

It is evident that Jan has a gift for teaching and she does it well. As led by the Holy Spirit, she provides insight during sessions, but also explains and teaches along the way. Her teaching is clear and she offers personal examples as a way to ‘demonstrate’ her points.

I have found her spiritual understanding to be a powerful key in the counseling/deliverance process. After hearing my story, and after discussion, she was able to connect some of the dots in ways I had never considered. I attribute this to her relationship with the Holy Spirit, her experience as a counselor, and her understanding of the spirit realm (and how it operates).

Other Comments
Counseling is an investment in yourself and it is an investment in your tomorrow. If there are things in your life you would like to change, if you have noticed patterns in your life you don’t like, or if you are at a point where you have tried “everything else,” then I encourage you to consider counseling. Not with just any counselor, but with a counselor who understands the spiritual realm and who centers their life and understanding on Jesus Christ, as Jan and Above and Beyond do.

– MS

Filed Under: Fear-Testimonial, Internet / Skype-Testimonial, Testimonial Tagged With: fear

Are You Trapped by Overwhelming Hopelessness, Dread, and Spirits of Death?

By Phyllis Tarbox

hopelessness dread spiritsThis article is based on my observation, experience, and fresh revelation from God during a specific deliverance session with a female client we will call Sasha.

With her encouragement, I share her deliverance to expose the demons of hopelessness, dread, and death that sought to kill, steal, and destroy her destiny. [Read more…]

Filed Under: Christian Deliverance Ministry, Featured Post Slider Tagged With: depression, fear

Where Did This Anxiety Come From?

By Phyllis Tarbox

anxiety come fromSpirits of anxiety come from hell. Their target is your Achilles heel, the chink in your armor. They aim to get a hook in your flesh to dissipate your strength and corner you in continual warfare.

The devil doesn’t need you to be anxious about the new Corona Virus or its financial impact, although that was the world-wide invitation. The anxiety released on the remnant is a more calculated assault to destroy you based upon insecurity that has gone unchecked until now. [Read more…]

Filed Under: Featured Post Slider, Spiritual Warfare Tagged With: fear

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