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You are here: Home / Christian Counseling / Has A Sexual Soul Tie Delayed Your Destiny?

Has A Sexual Soul Tie Delayed Your Destiny?

By Phyllis Tarbox

sexual soul tieAre you striving to find your purpose?

Have you lost sight of the dreams you once had?

Do you feel like a relationship sabotaged your life?

If you have struggled with delay, sabotage, and a lost sense of purpose an ungodly soul tie could be at the root of your torment.

Sexual sin is a big open door for the demonic kingdom and what they are after is your gifts that lead you to your purpose.

There is no sin higher than any other sin in God’s eyes, but sexual immorality carries with it much more significant consequences.  It opens the door for the demonic kingdom to launch an attack against the very purpose of your existence.   I am sure that is why in Acts Chapter 15 the Council at Jerusalem voted not to burden the new Gentile converts with all 613 Jewish Laws.  They chose only three and one of them was sexual immorality.

Therefore it is my judgment that we do not trouble those who are turning to God from among the Gentiles, but that we write to them that they abstain from things contaminated by idols and from fornication and from what is strangled and from the blood. (Acts 15; 19-20)

My Personal Testimony

I want to share a personal encounter where I believe that an ungodly sexual soul tie worked to hinder what God wanted to do in my life.

As a teenager, I was properly fearful of opening the door to sexual sin.  I waited until I was getting close to my goal of finishing college. I was purposed to stay focused and not let any boys distract me.  However, three months before I crossed the finish line, I had sex with my boyfriend.  Within a week or two of opening that door, I got sick and stayed sick for the next 20 years.  In retrospect, I can see how the enemy used that opportunity to delay my purpose and keep me in bondage with infirmity.

When I had sex outside of marriage with my college boyfriend, my soul was bound to his, and the demons had easy access.

My pastor Kathleen Peck has said, “Demons are parasitic, they are like fleas. They will jump from one to another, and where there is one flea, there is an infestation.”

She then follows up with, “There are no contraceptives that can provide protection against the spiritual dangers of sex.”

The world only understands the physical danger of unprotected sex.  Satan has blinded our eyes to the spiritual implications of ungodly sex and called it irrelevant so he can thwart our purpose and hold us in bondage.

I knew my purpose because of my passions and giftings.  I wanted to write, speak, and be involved with media.  I had no clue how I would get there, but my dreams were big ones.  All of that changed when I opened that door to sexual sin.  One sickness after another came in to delay me and limited what I could do.  Soon I forgot my dreams, but God did not.

When I went through deliverance, everything changed.  One door after another began to open.  People were jealous of me back then, but God was making up the time I lost.  I was on a fast track to re-establish my purpose.

Funny side note- I always pictured myself on television at 22.  When I actually made it in my late 50’s with a high definition camera exposing all my wrinkles, I almost had a meltdown.  Thankfully, my daughter was there to remind me that God was faithful to complete what he had started and this was not the time to fall apart!

My choices like Moses, left me in the wilderness almost 40 years, you do not have to stay there another day.  If this hit home for you, call us.  We are not the ones waiting for your call, God is.


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