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You are here: Home / Christian Deliverance Ministry / 10 Indicators A Spirit of Rejection Is Tormenting You

10 Indicators A Spirit of Rejection Is Tormenting You

By Phyllis Tarbox

spirit of rejectionA spirit of rejection victimizes its prey by causing them to feel worthless and unwanted.

It employs a spirit of self-pity as its right hand man to drive people away and allow abandonment and isolation to move in.

A spirit of rejection taunts with one failure after another in hopes you will say, “I give up!”

Don’t give up!  Do you have a spirit of rejection at work in your life? Everyone experiences rejection at some time but here are 10 potential indicators of a demonic spirit at work.

10 Fruits of a Spirit of Rejection At Work In Your Life

  1. You find yourself comparing your circumstances or situations with others, and you never    seem to measure up.
  2. You feel like you missed out on life’s opportunities and now it’s too late.
  3. No amount of encouragement is enough to convince you of your worth.
  4. You feel rejected if you are not greeted or acknowledged by leadership.
  5. You constantly seek the approval of others and suffer from people pleasing.
  6. You are easily offended or embarrassed from discipline or correction.
  7. You are always trying to prove yourself in public.
  8. You feel like you are on the outside looking in during interactions with people.
  9. You think you could do a better job than the current leader or teacher if you are given the opportunity.
  10. You believe no one understands you, or what you are going through.

!f you recognize these signs, don’t throw in the towel!

Conviction that leads to confession, repentance and deliverance from the spirit leads to freedom not defeat.

God is answering the cry of your heart by shedding light on the lies you believe that have sabotaged your destiny and your identity.

If you recognize these symptoms, what can you do? Until you are ready to go through deliverance from this spiritual torment of rejection, here are a few steps you can take today.

  1. Pray for the revelation of God’s love to show you who you are to Him.  There is nothing that you can “do” to earn his love.  If you are a parent, you know that when you first held your child, you didn’t give that child a laundry list of expectations in order to earn your love.  The minute that baby was born you were in love.  Allow that love from your heavenly Father to enter your heart.
  2. Pray to see others through the “Eyes of Christ”, not out of your own expectations.
  3. Pray that conviction would alert you to negative words that are coming out of your own mouth and holding you in bondage.  Repent for any word curses you have spoken over yourself or others in the past, and break those word curses.
  4. Forgive those who have offended you.
  5. Release all judgment that is causing you to be judged. (Matthew 7:2)

Right now you are in a battle, but you are important to God.  Don’t let past defeats cause you to quit.   As you seek God first, He will direct your steps to further counsel and  possibly deliverance.

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Comments

  1. Suzanne says

    May 20, 2014 at 8:18 pm

    I went through deliverance with Phyllis about 4 or 5 years ago and I am certain we addressed rejection. I still see some of these fruits, unfortunately. Do I need a tune up??

    • Phyllis Tarbox says

      May 21, 2014 at 8:04 am

      Suzanne, I like your phrase “tune-up”! Like a car needs an oil change from time to time, so do we! Absolutely give me a call. Always an honor to partner with you in the Body of Christ! Blessings, Phyllis

  2. Ramón f. says

    May 21, 2014 at 10:32 pm

    Hi,i have the ten fruits,i know that i need deliverance ,pelease what can i do? Thanks a lót and God bless you!

    • Don Ibbitson says

      May 22, 2014 at 11:26 am

      Please contact us. https://aandbcounseling.com/contact/

  3. Pearl says

    May 26, 2014 at 8:58 pm

    I desperately need to go through deliverance.
    God rescued me out of my own rebellion.
    However the soul tie I have is deep rooted and I am still tormented. I beg God to continue to help me through. Hope to be able to go through soon. I just want to be Free!!

  4. Tammy says

    May 30, 2014 at 9:04 am

    I am in need of deliverance from oppression. I can feel something attacking my spirit, soul, and body. I have been in torment for years. It has interfered with my life, family, job, school, and relationship with God. I feel angry and depressed. I am a born again believer in Christ and have sought prayer many times. I will not give up. I believe it’s my time for deliverance.

    • Don Ibbitson says

      May 30, 2014 at 12:48 pm

      Please contact us Tammy through the link above. We can help you.

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